Silo procedure si joint fusion

Hi my name is Lesley and I'm a mother of 5 amazing children. I learned 3 years ago after many years of ivf I was expecting twin! Unfortunately I was high risk and my body gave out carring them. After they were born I had emergency surgery and bladder surgery. After all was done I had 2 amazing twin daughters. As the days went by and turned into years I found out they had damaged my si joint. It's so painful. I've been in pain everyday for 3 years now and ive seen every dr I can, every pt, chiropractor, acupuncture and 3 spinal eblasion surgeries and still in so much pain everyday. I have been fighting with blue cross blue shield to cover a silo surgery its 88% effective and I'd be pain free! Unfortunately they say it's to experimental. So here I am 2 years after fighting with insurance, asking for help. Thr surgery is 15,000$ and with 5 kids and being disabled I am asking for help. I hate asking for help it's so hard to admit I can't do it by myself. If you have the kindness and extra funds to help in anyway i would be so great full. I just want to take my kids to the park or make dinner for my family. As it is I'm in bed almost all the time. My goal is to have surgery by August. Ty for even just taking the time to read this. If you can help at all it would change not only my life but my kids and family. God bless you all.