Jeremy Neary 9.27.24 Our first Christmas without him.

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RIP Jeremy Neary! Family Healing ❤️ Picking Up The Pieces From Our Sudden Loss. An update as of Friday 12/20/24 I received an official cause of death, which is what we thought, but were not sure of. Cardiopulmonary Arrest in person with Seizure Disorder (which was caused by his TBI) AND Asthma. I know it certainly doesn't change the fact that he left our lives WAY too soon, but it was an unanswered question (asked a lot) which is now answered.

Last Thursday TJ, his Dad Jeremy, Me (Nanny) and Uncle (Randy) went to bed as usual. Shortly after midnight our lives changed forever and we have no definitive answers yet. Jeremy was evidently in respiratory distress/failure and his brother attempted CPR while the Emergency Unit was in Route. Adding details makes this story harder

to tell but , it's been a week and instead of feeling easier it feels harder, but grief is like a snowflake or a fingerprint in it's uniqueness. We can't predict how or when it will show itself. My son wasn't able to be revived, but my grandson woke up excited to get ready for school because he had just started kindergarten. Jeremy had recently assumed full time custody of him in the summer and they had a morning routine that was their time, a close bonding time that was beautiful to witness..and it will be missed. I'm Happy To Say My ☺️ Beautiful Grandson TJ Has Been Reunited With His Mamma and Started A New School, Adjusting As Well As He Can. I'm Very Proud Of Him!!! We Picked Up Jeremy Today and Have A Beautiful Urn.

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