Support F.'s kids and final expenses

A queer, trans parent of queer neurodivergent children passed away unexpectedly on October 12, 2023. Funds are needed for final expenses AND for the kids’ immediate needs. Any extra funds will be put in a trust for the kids to access when they are 18.

F. was a one in a billion human. They built community wherever they went and would drop whatever they were doing to help a friend in need. They founded intersectional care networks and advocacy groups in Tulsa, all while working 3 jobs and single-parenting 3 neurodivergent / queer kids.

F. was the kind of person who would (literally) give you the shirt off their back. The kind of person that will do anything for their friends and the communities they built. I know everybody says that about their loved ones after they pass---it is absolutely true for F.

Unfortunately F. left the Earth too soon. Their chosen family is grieving and some are still in shock. As a testament to how wonderful a person F was, consider this: just a couple hours after Fern passed, their chosen family in Tulsa, OK started organizing. Within an hour, their chosen family in St. Louis got involved in how to help.

F’s kids’ immediate needs are the top priority right now. Please consider donating or just sharing. I know money is tight for SO many folks right now.

As one of F.’s friends put it today: may their memory be a blessing and a revolution.

Thank you for reading and sharing and considering donating. Please share far and wide.