Support Tana in Laying Michael Hakes to Rest (cremation)

hi my name is Tana Rae Hakes , i got a call around midnight from an orange county number, and they told me the most painful news I've heard in 10 years, your father was found not breathing and unresponsive at home, he had straightened up his life had gotten his own place for the first time in years, and was waiting for me to come out to see him, he was proud of my success and wanted to do the same he was inspired of my efforts he had been telling me that he was so proud and this and that, Michael hakes was a mason landscaper and architectural designer. he had many dear friends; he raised my sister and I and was always a kind spirit. I'm his only biological child, but he cared for lose he loved. i miss you so much dad and I'm sorry i didn't make it out to see you I'll do what i can to make sure your properly laid to rest i love you with all my heart and soul. and you will forever be missed. please help my mom and i to properly lay my dad to rest. the world will forever miss you. I don't really know how this whole funeral thing works i never had this type of responsibility it was so sudden please help me here.