
In Memory of Tom Coti
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In Loving Memory of Tom Coti
With deep sadness, we share that Tom passed away on Sunday, May 4th, with his wife, Patty, and daughter, Julia, by his side.
Hi, my name is Olivia Lizak, and I originally created this fundraiser to support the Coti family during Tom’s medical journey. Today, I write with a heavy heart to update you.
On July 31, 2023, the Coti family's life changed forever with the diagnosis of glioblastoma. What followed was a brave battle filled with surgeries, treatments, MRIs, hospital visits, and therapy. Through every high and low, Tom showed unwavering strength, heart, and humor—fighting with everything he had until the very end.
Tom was known for his love of fitness, his deep care for others, and his quiet resilience. He made everyone feel seen. Whether it was cheering for his Bears or letting Julia put the Packers game on instead, Tom was happiest simply spending time with the people he loved. He never skipped signing his texts “Love, Dad,” wore shorts in freezing weather, and had a legendary sweet tooth for pizza and ice cream.
He was—and always will be—Julia’s biggest supporter, Patty’s rock, and a man who led with love, even in the most difficult of times.
How Your Support Helps Now:
While this fundraiser was created to support Tom’s medical treatments, your continued generosity will now assist with final medical bills, end-of-life expenses, and the transition the family is facing. Your donations have already brought tremendous relief and continue to be a blessing.
The outpouring of support has meant the world to the Cotis. Every message, donation, and shared memory has brought light into their darkest days.
Services:
If you would like to pay your respects or attend services for Tom, details can be found here.
How You Can Help:
Donate – Any amount helps support the family through this next chapter.
Share – Please continue to share this page to honor Tom’s memory and support those he loved most.
From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for standing by Tom and the Coti family. Your love and support will never be forgotten.




Co-organizers (3)

Olivia Lizak
Organizer
Oak Lawn, IL
Julia Coti
Beneficiary
Julia Coti
Co-organizer
Matt Seifried
Co-organizer