A Rare Surrogacy Tragedy and How You Can Help

Update!

Funds from this campaign, in addition to other fundraising efforts raised by friends and family, have successfully helped cover any short term financial concerns until the family can access bank accounts and receive her insurance benefits.  Thank you to the surrogacy community, who have been so generous and encouraging in supporting this endeavor!  

In May 2021, an amazing three-time surrogate lost her life in childbirth due to a rare, but serious delivery complication called amniotic fluid embolism (AFE). She leaves behind her children, mom, siblings, coworkers, a large, supportive extended family, and countless friends.

In her words, she had described her experience as a gestational carrier as “one of the most important, rewarding experiences” of her life.  Her shining and vibrant personality, sense of humor, and willingness to help others facing infertility become parents was a focal point in her life over the last 10 years.  She will always be remembered by our community, and by the families she helped create.  

For now, the family asks that all details of her identity (and theirs) remain anonymous, and ask that their privacy be respected.

We will keep the campaign open for those who still wish to contribute.

Funds from this campaign will be held by an independent, licensed and bonded 3rd party escrow manager, Surrogacy Escrow Account Management LLC.  SEAM has generously waived any costs or fees associated with their service, and has also been in contact with her family