Please help me

Hi, my name is Cynthia Ann Bussard, I am fund raising for my daughter, ( Tabitha Lee Bane ) she just turned 39 years old on 01-25-2024, she passed away at home with me by her side on March 5th 2024 at 5:08 p.m. she has been sick for about five years now with many health issues that were life threatening; she has been back and forth to doctors and in and out of hospitals since 2019.

Tabitha was known for her magnetic personality lighting up a room when she entered it and made many friends very easily, she was a ray of Sunshine and loved people.

Tabitha Lee Banes "Tabbie,” "Lee,” age 39, 01-25-1985 Passed away Tuesday, March 5, 2024 at her home on 10 Timberland Drive, Riverside, R.I. 02915 with her mother by her side, Born in New Brunswick, GA the daughter of Cynthia Ann "Cindy" (Del-Toro) Bussard of Warren, R.I. resides in Riverside, R.I. and her Father Jeffery Scott Bane of Texas also her Step Dad John Bussard of Riverside, RI, and her brother Jeremy Scott O’Donnell Bane. She was a longtime resident of Warren, She attended Warren High School and then CCRI for six years where completed her Medical Assistant program.

On September 26th, 2010, she started a new Journey in her life of becoming a Mother, to the most beautiful boy Noah Thomas Bane, she lit up like a Christmas tree and gave up her career to become a stay home Mom. What a Great Mom she was. On December 11, 2013, she had her second beautiful child, Owen William Medford. They will miss her so much.

In addition to her parents, she leaves behind her two sons, Noah Thomas Bane and Owen William Medford and their father Michael Medford all of Portsmouth, a brother, Jeremy Scott O'Donnell Bane of Riverside, her beloved pets; her dog, Bella Faye Bane, Gerbil, Binks and Snake, Slither.

For many years, Tabitha worked as a server, in the kitchen and as a manager at Papa Gino’s and Warren House of Pizza ( Cook and Delivery ) several establishments in the hospitality industry and had done administrative work for Life, Inc. Skilled in the Creative arts and Crafts, she enjoyed making Roses out of Tissue and out of Aluminum Foil, and writing. A "fashionista,” she loved clothes, shoes, jewelry, delighted in reading a good book called ( What if I fly? ) And writing in her journal every day about her day and feelings

( She called it ) ( Self: this is what I have to say today ). Tabitha loved music ( pentatonic and loved singing with her son Owen ) she also loved Groot. Most of all she had a heart of Gold and loved everyone she touched, she was sweet, kind, loyal, giving, caring, loving, honest, she also had a temper but along with that came love.

Tabitha’s wishes were going to be :

Buried at St. Jean the Baptiste Cemetery ( Del Toro ) plot in Warren , R.I. next to Gail Manchester my Sister , Joseph C Del Toro my brother , my sister Jo Anne Cunningham Trombley and my Mom and Dad Joseph O Del Toro , Anna Louise Arel Del Toro .

But

Due to my family ( siblings ) complications , I have to go another route and purchase a new plot and a new grave stone.

It is my hope that your contributions will ease the burden of her cremation , celebration of life and burial, and a memory garden.

I am going to have a celebration of life in my back yard in the Summer and then bury her in the plot that I have chosen.

Because It is beyond my means financially.

If anyone would like to share any pictures or memories of Tabitha, please do so on face book or send to me at:

Cynthia Ann Bussard

10 Timberland Drive, Riverside, R.I. 02915

so I could make a collage of pictures.

If you would like to put a plant in my Memory Garden please do in memory of Tabitha or a loved one, feel free to do so . I have had it for many many years in my back yards.

Thank You,

Cynthia Ann Bussard ( Tabitha’s Mother )