Tracy Black
Hi, my name is Anthony, and I'm looking for help in fundraising for my little sis funeral.
My little sis Tracy 43 suffered with extreme mental health issues for well over 20+ years, until she was finally diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder {BPD) around 8 years ago, she fort was strength and passion to over come these demons, day in, day out. Then 4+ years back Tracy was diagnosed with type 2 Diabetes has they tried to get her blood sugar level under control, then the passing of our parents 3 years ago with 4 months between each other, was a dagger to the heart, especially for Tracy , who idolised her dad, and cared for him until the end, as we did with mum. who she looked after due to our mum suffering with severe Multiple Sclerosis. She was a caring woman with a heart of gold, if anyone need help she was always there, she would always put other peoples needs before her own. she always came across with a smile on her face that would light us a room no matter how broken she felt inside. she had an infectious laugh, and a wicked personality.
She was my rock especially when i was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis 26 years ago until her passing on Tuesday 6th August, if I was ever in need of help she was always there for me no matter what, even though she live over 182 miles away,
This year she was messed about with her diabetes medication with the consultants/doctors keep changing it around, but at the same time her different consultants/doctors for her BPD was doing the same thing with keep changing the medication which is dangerous on its own at the best of times, never mind with her having to deal with her diabetes on top of it , both of these changes had a massive impact on her life. due to these 2 major changes, Tracy couldn't get to her counselling sessions due to having severe diarrhoea caused by these medication changes, which she contacted the counsellor to inform them of these major issues she was suffering with, this happen twice which she informed the right authorities, then they pulled the rug from under her feet by stopping her counselling, leaving this beautiful, caring and loving vulnerable women to fight her demons all alone.
Tracy always told me, this was her lifeline.
on Tuesday 6th August 2024 her demons got the better of her. and at around 12.45pm she was pronounced dead.
My sister had taken a funeral plan out, a month before, this plan is invalid due to her not having this plan for a year.
Tracy leaves behind a devastated partner, daughter, step daughter, son, step son, 3 grandsons, a heart broken brother and niece, cousins, uncles and aunty all asking all the same question. How can the health authorities let this happen?
What I'm asking for is help in raising unto £7000 to give my beautiful sister the send off she deserve and her partner to piece of mind he wouldn't be lumber with this debt
I totally understand time are hard with the cost of living crisis, but PLEASE would you find in your heart to donate as much or as little has possible, ever little helps, PLEASE share this information.
#BPD
#suicide
#mental health
#depression
#anxiety
#panic attacks
#bipolar
#schizophrenia
#stress
Yours thankfull
Anthony XX