Urgent: Help my Brothers relocate after losing our Mum.
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Tragically, on the 26th September, me and my family unexpectedly lost my mum at only age 49 due to metastatic rectal cancer. This was completely unbeknownst to me and my siblings, my mother was in and out of hospital during the month before her death, and within a month of being diagnosed in August my mum passed away- she did not tell us of her illness or the severity at all due to her fear of being a burden to her children and seeing us devestated in her final weeks. She could not bare that being her final memory of the family she treasured. As a family, this is the most painful thing we have ever had to face.
Sadly, not only are we coping with this immense and devastating loss as a family, my three brothers Jordan, Beau and Archie who have been living in the house with my mum for nearly 10 years have been relentlessly kicked out essentially by the unempathetic landlord. In the few days after my mums death, the landlord with no condolence wasted no time giving a short four weeks for my brother to sort out arrangements, which in a small town like Consett there has not been more than a few options and after applying for every property none have got back to him which has left them almost certainly going to have to resort to temporary accomodation which is not ideal at all especially given these awful and gutting circumstances- especially with having to organise and fund my mothers funeral which all came completely and utterly unexpected and all the costs that have come with her passing.
To describe my brother, Jordan, in a few words would be impossible. He has taken this situation with the most insane amount of stride, taking care of my two younger brothers whilst coping with the loss of our mother and having to find a new property, fund my mothers funeral and everything inbetween. Jordan has been me and my families beacon of light throughout my mother's death- and although he would never ask for help from anyone no matter how desperate due to his selfless nature, as his sister I know he needs this and he deserves the world. With my two younger brothers still being in school, and my older brother having to cover the unexpected costs of movers, cleaners, storage, all new furniture due to the deterioration of existing furniture in the house, new house items, even finding a house and gathering the costs for this, funeral costs, as you can imagine the financial stress is so much to deal with after already trying to grieve such an immense loss. He has not been able to find the time to even begin the grieving process with the weight of all the stress. Our mother's home was our sanctuary and safe place for many years, despite having little money it was our home- to lose this in such a tragic way and have such little time to find a new home and fund it all is the worst thing as a family we have had to ever deal with- which is why I have created this fundraiser.
Me and my family hugely appreciate any donations/sharing of this fundraiser more than you could ever know, all donations will go to my three brothers, Jordan, Beau and Archie who need it more than ever, to create a fresh start so that they can settle at last and begin the healing process after all of the stress.
Thankyou,
Daisy.
Organizer
Daisy May Purvis
Organizer
England