We just need a little help so our life can be ok

Hi my name is Rhea. I’m 29 years old and I have a 6,5,4 and 2 month old. I raise my kids alone. I’m getting out of a very bad situation finally but it’s extremely hard! I’m currently sleeping on my cousins couch with all of my kids until we can figure this out. It’s been so very hard. I’m exhausted I’m overstimulated I’m just flat out tired and weak at this point. I have a brain tumor and have needed surgery the past year now but due to life’s circumstances I have to keep putting it off. My goal is to move back to New York where we are from and live with my father. He isn’t doing too well either he’s dying from cancer. I’ll be his caregiver. In order for me and my kids to get out there my friend and I came up with a plan but I need help raising the money to do it! She is going to fly out here ( she can pay her own ticket) and we will get a rental vehicle and an enclosed trailer to attach to it from uhaul. This way I don’t have to leave behind all of my children’s things and mine. It’s just so expensive but the crazy thing is this is the cheapest way we found. I know once I get to New York my life will finally get better for my kids and I, I have so much better support there and a job waiting for me! Please help me and my babies and also pray for us thank you.