Will You Help Us Get Settled?
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Hello Family, Friends, Acquaintances, and even those I don't know,
Opening this campaign is difficult for me. I have really wrestled with whether asking for help this way was a good idea. I'm not afraid to discuss details with anyone interested in getting a better understanding of what is going on, but I'll be more brief than I tend to be due to the painful and sensitive nature. My boys and I need your help.
On July 19, I packed a few bags for the boys and me, and we moved out of our home in Coolidge. This was after days of emotional conversations that culminated in my feeling fear once again for my safety. There has been various types of abuse. We have lived in 5 different places since July 19. We will be moving again this weekend. (I have some amazing friends!) In addition to a myriad of research on legal options, I have been looking for homes to rent.
One challenge has been the income qualification. My father and grandfather have agreed to co-sign a lease for me. We have found a way that is acceptable to most agencies. However, there are more people looking to rent than there are homes at the moment. I know in time, God will provide the right home.
A second challenge exists. My husband has moved his paycheck to a new account that I don't have access to. He said I just need to ask when I need money. This is humiliating! I've never been dishonest with him, spent frivolously or taken too much. This is just another way for him to control me.
I'm asking for help financially so the boys and I can get settled sooner rather than later, so we can replace things that will be split in the separation, so we can start over. God has been providing for our needs, which thus far have primarily been groceries, gas and diapers. My church in Tucson is prepared to help some with the upcoming expenses. Our biggest need will be the cost of housing until a court order is in place. I will eventually need to work some to supplement the court order. I hope to find a roommate. I will look for some childcare work as well. I want to stay home with my boys as long as I possibly can!
I am grateful for the friendships I have and the acquaintances I've had over the years, and I would never want anyone to feel I have taken advantage of them nor my situation. Getting settled in our own home will mean the world to me and my boys! They are doing so well considering the circumstances, but are having challenges. They are tired of sleeping in playpens and moving around. I deeply desire to get them back into a routine. I'm taking one day at a time, but in truth each day seems a bit harder than the last. I'm weary. Your generosity, even in praying for us, will be greatly appreciated! We will forever be grateful!
Opening this campaign is difficult for me. I have really wrestled with whether asking for help this way was a good idea. I'm not afraid to discuss details with anyone interested in getting a better understanding of what is going on, but I'll be more brief than I tend to be due to the painful and sensitive nature. My boys and I need your help.
On July 19, I packed a few bags for the boys and me, and we moved out of our home in Coolidge. This was after days of emotional conversations that culminated in my feeling fear once again for my safety. There has been various types of abuse. We have lived in 5 different places since July 19. We will be moving again this weekend. (I have some amazing friends!) In addition to a myriad of research on legal options, I have been looking for homes to rent.
One challenge has been the income qualification. My father and grandfather have agreed to co-sign a lease for me. We have found a way that is acceptable to most agencies. However, there are more people looking to rent than there are homes at the moment. I know in time, God will provide the right home.
A second challenge exists. My husband has moved his paycheck to a new account that I don't have access to. He said I just need to ask when I need money. This is humiliating! I've never been dishonest with him, spent frivolously or taken too much. This is just another way for him to control me.
I'm asking for help financially so the boys and I can get settled sooner rather than later, so we can replace things that will be split in the separation, so we can start over. God has been providing for our needs, which thus far have primarily been groceries, gas and diapers. My church in Tucson is prepared to help some with the upcoming expenses. Our biggest need will be the cost of housing until a court order is in place. I will eventually need to work some to supplement the court order. I hope to find a roommate. I will look for some childcare work as well. I want to stay home with my boys as long as I possibly can!
I am grateful for the friendships I have and the acquaintances I've had over the years, and I would never want anyone to feel I have taken advantage of them nor my situation. Getting settled in our own home will mean the world to me and my boys! They are doing so well considering the circumstances, but are having challenges. They are tired of sleeping in playpens and moving around. I deeply desire to get them back into a routine. I'm taking one day at a time, but in truth each day seems a bit harder than the last. I'm weary. Your generosity, even in praying for us, will be greatly appreciated! We will forever be grateful!
Organizer
Jennifer Burbridge
Organizer
Apache Junction, AZ