Save Sasha– A Father’s Urgent Fight for Her Safety

A 10-Year-Old Girl Fled Abuse. Now Her Abusers Are Fighting to Take Her Back.

My name is Matt, and I am fighting to keep my daughter, Sasha, safe from the unimaginable.

For years, Sasha suffered horrific abuse at the hands of those who were supposed to love and protect her. She lived in constant fear, trapped in a nightmare that no child should ever endure. She was told she was worthless and unloved. She was threatened. Kept from going to school. And when she tried to speak up, she was silenced.

But Sasha found the courage to tell the truth. She showed messages from her mother’s own iPad, where her mother demands her boyfriend to "let her have it good" and "show her where the lobsters live"—a horrifying reference to the bottom of the ocean. Night after night, my little girl lived in fear, terrified of the next explosion of anger that would break her heart, yet again.

Sasha turned to the only safe place she knew—her school. Her school counselor listened, took action, and contacted authorities. DHS (Child Protective Services) stepped in, launched yet another investigation, and finally, this time, confirmed the neglect and abuse. The caseworkers were horrified. Sasha was immediately removed from her mother’s and grandparents care.

That’s when I got the call from the Attorney General in Hawaii.

I was on a plane within hours, flying across the ocean to rescue my daughter.

Now, Sasha’s Abusers Are Fighting to Take Her Back and that’s why we need your help. 

With the truth exposed and with DHS and the courts placing Sasha in my custody, you’d think this nightmare would be over. But now, her abusers are engaging in vexatious litigation to manipulate proceedings and undermine the integrity of the judicial process to try to get her back.

Sasha’s mother, despite the multiple arrests and overwhelming evidence against her, is pushing for custody. And her parents—who ignored Sasha’s suffering for years—are bankrolling the legal fight to force her back into the same environment she finally escaped from.

Instead of accepting the truth and helping their granddaughter heal, they are funding money and influence to drag this case out while the mother's in rehab, proclaiming she's reborn again and has changed. This isn't about giving another chance, this is about a child's life and future and the facts are clear. 

What’s worse, they are misleading friends and their community to drum up support for their cause. Sasha’s grandparents have painted a twisted narrative, falsely claiming that I “took Sasha away” for no reason or out of spite. They conveniently leave out the abuse, the DHS findings, the drugs, the neglect, the hunger, the nights my daughter was left alone—the fact that this was done to protect Sasha’s life. By spreading these half-truths and omissions, they’ve gathered some supporters who truly don’t know the real story. It’s gut-wrenching to see people rally around a cause that would hurt Sasha, all because they believe the grandparents’ deception. Little do they know, it’s driven by their unhealthy fixation to raise my daughter under a manipulated reality, themselves. 

These are the same people who:

Meanwhile, I am a father of three amazing children fighting this battle to keep my daughter safe and trying to stay above water. I’ve already spent every dollar I have on attorney fees, emergency court filings, and extensive therapy for Sasha to bring the light back into her childhood that every child should have.

Legal battles like this are incredibly expensive and exhausting. So far, I’ve emptied my savings and maxed out credit cards to cover attorney fees, court costs, and related expenses. In just a few months, I’ve spent thousands of dollars to secure emergency orders and to prepare the case for permanent custody. And every dollar has been worth it to protect my little girl. But now, as we head into the most critical phase of this custody fight, my resources are running dangerously low. The sad truth is, justice can be swayed by resources – Sasha’s mother, with her parents’ financial backing, is leveraging every legal tactic possible. I won’t give up on Sasha, but I urgently need help to afford the legal firepower required to win this battle for her safety.

Your donations will directly fund the legal fees needed to represent Sasha’s best interests in court. My attorney is fighting tirelessly to present the overwhelming evidence of abuse, to ensure the judge hears Sasha’s voice, and to block any attempt by the other side to minimize what happened. We have upcoming court dates where expert witnesses and reports may be needed to drive home the severity of Sasha’s trauma – all of which cost money. Without proper representation, there is a terrifying chance that the court might side with the mother’s plea for reunification simply because I couldn’t afford to counter their claims. I cannot let financial strain be the reason Sasha is put back in harm’s way.

Beyond the courtroom, your support will also help cover therapy and healing costs for Sasha. She is making progress in therapy, but her journey to recover from years of abuse will be a long one. Our health insurance only covers a limited number of sessions, and the specialized trauma counseling she needs comes with out-of-pocket costs. Every session is crucial for rebuilding her confidence, coping with anxiety, feeling safe, and overcoming nightmares. Additionally, I want to provide Sasha with any extra support she might need – whether it’s art therapy to help express her feelings or simply creating a nurturing environment at home with books, toys, and stability she deserves. These should be the only worries of a child – not courts and custody battles.

Finally, donations will go toward securing emergency legal protections to ensure Sasha isn’t yanked back into danger during this process. We are seeking court orders that prevent any forced reunification or unsupervised visits until the court makes a final decision. This means possibly paying for filings and hearings on short notice if the other side tries something sudden. I’m prepared to do whatever it takes to shield Sasha, but the costs are daunting. Time is critical because each day that passes is another day the other side is strategizing to regain access, and we must be prepared.In short, your support = Sasha’s safety. It’s that simple. Every dollar will go toward keeping Sasha in a safe, loving home and giving her the chance to heal and just be a kid again. I’ve set a funding goal based on the attorney’s estimates of upcoming legal fees and the therapy costs projected for at least the next year. If we are fortunate to exceed the goal, every extra penny will be put into a dedicated fund for Sasha’s ongoing care and education, so she can thrive beyond this dark chapter.

Sasha’s Journey to Healing

Since coming home, Sasha has started therapy and counseling, at one of the best trauma-focused centers in our area. She is scheduled every week for the next year.

For the first time in a long time, she is beginning to believe she is safe.

But the trauma is still there.

Still, I see the little girl she’s meant to be—when she laughs, when she colors, when she's singing, when she's playing with her brother and sister. She is healing.

But this legal battle threatens everything.

Why We Need Your Help – The Urgency of This Fight

I have temporary full custody, but the fight for permanent custody is just beginning.

We need expert witnesses, forensic psychologists, and emergency legal filings to counteract their tactics.

But I can’t do this alone.

Time is Running Out

Sasha’s abusers have resources and are pushing trial. They caused a scene outside the courtroom at the last hearing and showed up at her school the very next morning demanding information about her whereabouts.

How You Can Make a Difference

This isn’t just about money – it’s about joining a mission to protect a child’s life and future. Sasha and I need not just funds, but an army of support and awareness behind us.

Donate – Any amount, big or small, will bring us one step closer to securing Sasha’s safety. Every $10, $20, $50 adds up and directly fuels our legal fight or pays for a therapy session. Consider it an investment in a little girl’s life, one that will help her live free from fear. If you’re able to give more, please know that it will make a profound difference in this battle for justice. We truly appreciate any help you can give.

Share – Even if you cannot contribute financially, please share this campaign with others. Spread Sasha’s story on social media, via email, or simply tell your friends and family. The more people who know what’s happening, the better our chances of reaching the goal quickly. You never know who might be moved to help protect Sasha when they hear her story. Use the hashtag #KeepSashaSafe if you share on social platforms to help build momentum and show Sasha she has a whole community rallying for her.

Stay Informed & Supportive – We will post updates on Sasha’s situation and the legal case as it progresses. Your encouraging comments, prayers, and positive thoughts mean the world to us. On tough days, I read your messages to Sasha (the child-friendly ones) to remind her that there are so many good people out there who care about her. It makes her feel loved and not alone. Please continue to send your strength and hope our way.

The immediate impact of your support cannot be overstated. Your donation could be the very thing that pays for the next critical motion in court that keeps Sasha safe. It could fund the therapy session where Sasha finally overcomes a fearful memory. It could secure the legal order that ensures her mother cannot come near her. In other words, you have the power to change the course of Sasha’s life.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you for reading our story and considering helping us. This has been the hardest fight of our lives, but knowing that compassionate people like you are out there gives me the strength to keep going. Sasha is a bright, kind, resilient child who loves drawing, dance, and playing with her brother and sister. She has a whole beautiful life ahead of her, and with your help, I intend to make sure it’s a life lived in safety, love, and happiness.

Please donate and share if you can. Every action matters. On behalf of myself, our family, and especially Sasha – thank you for being a guardian angel in our time of need. Together, we can ensure that Sasha’s tomorrow is bright, secure, and free from fear. Let’s show this brave little girl that the world can be kind and just, and that she will never have to be afraid of going “back” ever again.

Thank you for helping keep Sasha safe and standing with us.

From my family to yours

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