#MumsDyingWish
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*UPDATE: 11TH MAY 2018*
Hello everyone!
I want to thank every single one of you who donated and shared the gofundme.
Although we haven’t reached the intended goal I can gladly say NO MORE donations are needed.
We’ve made enough to give mum the send off she wants.
Again THANK YOU ALL.
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*UPDATE: 6TH APRIL 2018*
My mother sadly passed away yesterday morning... (5th april) at 7:31am. Below is the original post when this was first set up
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At 21 years old I still can't believe I'm having to plan my mothers funeral.. I never saw this coming at all. Even when she was diagnosed with cancer months ago I just told myself "she will beat this" but I guess not. My mother could die at any point now. It's taken some time but I've finally accepted it. More importantly SHE's accepted it.
Beauti Lerlance [also known as Monica/Monique]
Imagine being misdiagnosed and dismissed for a year to then find out you have stage 4 liver & gallblader cancer which is inoperable. Then to be put through months of chemotheraphy for it not to work and to then be told you have months to live.
She's been through so much up to this point and now her dying wish is to be buried, that's all. To leave this world as she came, as flesh not dust.
I went to various funeral directors and right now we're looking at £9-10k for the funeral.
Truth is i'm barely getting by and my family can only contribute what they can.
It's a high mountain to climb but at the same time that's my MUM at the end of the day so i'm going to do EVERYTHING I can to make this work.
She's been failed by the NHS too many times and I REFUSE to fail her now.
I won't be able to cope knowing I didn't try my abosloute best to fufill my mothers last request.
I need you to know that everything counts. EVERYTHING.
Even if 50 people donated £10 that's already £500.
EVERYTHING COUNTS.
I'm swallowing my pride here, because at the end of the day it's not about me its about her.
She didn't deserve this, no one does.. I just want her soul to rest in peace...
Please help Beauti Lerlance get the send off she deserves.
[even if it's not you there's someone out there who can donate and make a difference so don't forget to share
Lastly I wrote a song for her called "Beautiful Solider"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLENIAgmi1E
Hello everyone!
I want to thank every single one of you who donated and shared the gofundme.
Although we haven’t reached the intended goal I can gladly say NO MORE donations are needed.
We’ve made enough to give mum the send off she wants.
Again THANK YOU ALL.
---------
*UPDATE: 6TH APRIL 2018*
My mother sadly passed away yesterday morning... (5th april) at 7:31am. Below is the original post when this was first set up
----------
At 21 years old I still can't believe I'm having to plan my mothers funeral.. I never saw this coming at all. Even when she was diagnosed with cancer months ago I just told myself "she will beat this" but I guess not. My mother could die at any point now. It's taken some time but I've finally accepted it. More importantly SHE's accepted it.
Beauti Lerlance [also known as Monica/Monique]
Imagine being misdiagnosed and dismissed for a year to then find out you have stage 4 liver & gallblader cancer which is inoperable. Then to be put through months of chemotheraphy for it not to work and to then be told you have months to live.
She's been through so much up to this point and now her dying wish is to be buried, that's all. To leave this world as she came, as flesh not dust.
I went to various funeral directors and right now we're looking at £9-10k for the funeral.
Truth is i'm barely getting by and my family can only contribute what they can.
It's a high mountain to climb but at the same time that's my MUM at the end of the day so i'm going to do EVERYTHING I can to make this work.
She's been failed by the NHS too many times and I REFUSE to fail her now.
I won't be able to cope knowing I didn't try my abosloute best to fufill my mothers last request.
I need you to know that everything counts. EVERYTHING.
Even if 50 people donated £10 that's already £500.
EVERYTHING COUNTS.
I'm swallowing my pride here, because at the end of the day it's not about me its about her.
She didn't deserve this, no one does.. I just want her soul to rest in peace...
Please help Beauti Lerlance get the send off she deserves.
[even if it's not you there's someone out there who can donate and make a difference so don't forget to share
Lastly I wrote a song for her called "Beautiful Solider"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLENIAgmi1E
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