Help 2 starcrossed lovers

The Story of 2 Starcrossed Lovers

It began as an online relationship and soon swelled to more. One of us lives in canada, and  the other the United States. I work hard for a living and so does my partner in the states. However a slew of medical problems, arthritis, surgeries, joint replacements have placed my partner about 15,000 in debt.

He currently works 3 jobs and can barely make ends meet. Whenever something happens in life it destroys him entirely, and I am left to help support him financially and pick up the pieces. I have invested thousands of dollars into helping to keep him afloat but I am running out of resources.

I want to sponsor him and bring him up here to live with me but I need at least 20,000 dollars in the bank to do so. Our relationship has been going for 2 years now and it has been very stressful. He gets stressed working so much, the stress of work makes him ill, and then he becomes sick and loses more work time and then has to make up for it. It's a neverending vicious circle.

To top it all off many of his automatic withdrawels take out money before he gets paid, which means the late charges add up and he has to pay even MORE.

He is currently overweight and is going in for bariatric surgery, of which his work does not cover all of it, and has moved into a lower costing house to try to save money.

He is also attempting to go back to the gym after the surgery, as he was a powerlifter before the weight gain and through depression just stopped going. A powerlifter that stops working out has disastrous consequences on the joints.

My partner has bursitis, synuvitis, neuropathy on one side due to disc degeneration, arthritis, a partially torn rotator cuff, 2 completely gone knees and a partially torn achilles tendon. He is in pain all day every day. This money will also help him for health products needed to regain that health.

I wish to help him to settle his debts and bring him up here and marry him so that we can live happily ever after, but as it stands the rigors of an unfair life are taking their toll on us and I would really appreciate some help before the stress causes his health to deteriorate more and have him work himself into an early grave.

*Edit* we are up to 100 dollars - 50 on the site and 50 off-site.. slow and steady wins the race.. all donations are still encouraged!